Prepping big brother or big sister for newborn sibling photos
As a Tampa newborn photographer with a decade of experience, and a mama to two (now teens!!!), I've seen it all when it comes to newborn photography with siblings. Adding a big brother or big sister to a newborn session can create heartwarming images, but let's be real... It can also be a little chaotic! Having spent nine years in a kindergarten classroom, I've picked up a few tricks to help make these sessions go smoothly and capture those precious moments of newborn sibling photography.
Here are my 5 tips for preparing your older child(ren) for beautiful sibling portraits:
1. Talk about it beforehand -
Start talking about the newborn photoshoot a week early. Explain what happens in a fun, positive way.
2. Let them practice -
So many parents are naturally nervous about allowing the sibling to hold the new baby. This can sometimes lead to the older children being uncomfortable or unsure during photos. Before the session, gently practice holding the baby together. Show them how to support the baby's head and body and emphasize being gentle when they touch or kiss baby. This practice will build self confidence for both the child and parents, that by the time photos are here, they are ready.
3. Keep it short and sweet -
Little ones have short attention spans. My goal for newborn sibling photography is to get those beautiful shots taken and done. My newborn sessions are short and sweet because I realize you are exhausted, and your other children are over stimulated with a new baby getting all the attention. Trying to force a longer interaction will likely lead to meltdowns, and nobody wants that!
4. Positive reinforcement and empowerment -
Not only is having a new baby a lot for you, but it is a lot for your other children. Sometimes a small treat or activity planned for after the sibling photos can work wonders! Before the session ask them to help choose their outfit or ask them to help you pack. This makes them feel like they are a valuable part of the day.
5. Don't sweat the small stuff -
It's ok if they are not perfectly posed. Sometimes the most genuine and adorable interactions happen when they are just being themselves. I'm looking for connection, love and those sweet moments when they touch baby or give them a kiss. Not every sibling smiles huge, sometimes getting them looking is enough.
While getting beautiful newborn sibling photos can feel chaotic, I promise we will create memories you'll cherish.
Newborn sessions are all about capturing the beautiful beginning of your family's new chapter. With a little preparation and A LOT of patience, you'll have some beautiful moments.
